Unit 8: I Can Talk About Families
Key Ideas
Families often experience conflict and loyalty at the same time. Idioms such as your own flesh and blood, fight like cat and dog, close ranks, and take someone for granted describe common family relationships. Advanced usage: many of these expressions are figurative and frequently appear in conversations, interviews, and opinion writing. Expressions like account for and result in are useful for explaining causes and consequences, while put someone on a pedestal and lavish attention on describe unequal treatment within families.
Middle Child Syndrome
The theory suggests that birth order may influence behavior. A firstborn may be put on a pedestal, a youngest child may get away with murder, and a middle child may feel squeezed out, starved of attention, or left out. Whether true or not, these phrases are valuable for discussing family dynamics.
Exercise 1 – Match
- flesh and blood
- close ranks
- turn on
- miserable as sin
- account for
- get away with murder
- leave out
- back up
a explain b support c relatives d attack suddenly e exclude f very unhappy g unite defensively h do anything without punishment
Exercise 2 – Complete the Idiom
- fight like cat and ____
- close ____
- turn ____ someone
- on top ____ each other
- result ____ problems
- starved ____ attention
- left ____
- backed ____
Exercise 3 – Replace the Words
- family members
- explain
- very unhappy
- suddenly attacked
- not included
- admire too much
- support
- make a special effort
Exercise 4 – True or False
- Close ranks means separate from each other.
- Turn on can mean attack unexpectedly.
- Get away with murder is literal.
- Lavish means give a lot.
- Result in expresses consequence.
- Leave out means include.
- Take for granted means fail to appreciate.
- Squeeze out can mean exclude.
Exercise 5 – Sentence Building
- flesh and blood
- close ranks
- account for
- take for granted
- put on a pedestal
- distance yourself from
- lavish on
- result in
Exercise 6 – Discussion Prompts
- Do siblings often fight?
- Why do families close ranks?
- Can parents treat children differently?
- What results from favoritism?
- Have you felt left out?
- Can praise be excessive?
- Why do people take relatives for granted?
- What makes families strong?
Unit 8 Practice
Use the target idioms and phrasal verbs accurately. Pay attention to prepositions and collocations.
Exercise 1 – Gap Fill
- They’re my own ______ and blood.
- The sisters fight like cat and ______.
- The family closed ______ after criticism.
- He turned ______ me.
- We live on top ______ each other.
- She is miserable ______ sin.
- How do you account ______ that?
- I take them for ______.
Exercise 2 – Multiple Choice
- close ranks = a) unite b) travel
- leave out = a) exclude b) reward
- back up = a) oppose b) support
- lavish on = a) give generously b) hide
- squeeze out = a) include b) push aside
- distance yourself from = a) detach b) praise
- put on a pedestal = a) criticize b) admire excessively
- result in = a) cause b) prevent
Exercise 3 – Error Correction
- fight like cat and cats
- result on problems
- left of attention
- backed me down
- close rank
- lavish attention at him
- distance yourself on it
- put her in a pedestal
Exercise 4 – Choose the Best Idiom
- unhappy after breakup
- relatives
- sudden attack
- excluded child
- over-admired child
- family unity under criticism
- not appreciating parents
- explaining a situation
Exercise 5 – Short Answers
- Who is your flesh and blood?
- Why do siblings argue?
- When should families close ranks?
- Can praise be harmful?
- What may result in conflict?
- Why do people feel left out?
- How can parents back children up?
- How can attention be lavished fairly?
Exercise 6 – Transform the Sentence
- They excluded him.
- She supports me.
- He admires her too much.
- The situation caused problems.
- I am detached from the group.
- They appreciate nobody.
- She receives too much freedom.
- We live extremely close together.
Unit 8 Extended Practice
Consolidate your knowledge by using the expressions in realistic contexts.
Exercise 1 – Reading Response
- Why might siblings fight?
- What does close ranks suggest?
- Why can outsiders be criticized?
- What causes people to feel left out?
- How can support help?
- What happens when attention is unequal?
- Can distance improve relationships?
- What role does appreciation play?
Exercise 2 – Synonyms
- relatives
- explain
- support
- exclude
- admire excessively
- cause
- detach
- unhappy
Exercise 3 – Collocation Builder
- _____ ranks
- _____ point of
- _____ away with murder
- _____ on a pedestal
- _____ of attention
- _____ yourself from
- _____ up
- _____ in
Exercise 4 – Scenario Writing
- family argument
- middle child
- outsider criticism
- sibling rivalry
- family support
- being left out
- being praised too much
- making peace
Exercise 5 – Choose the Correct Expression
- close ranks / cry wolf
- flesh and blood / cold feet
- back up / break down
- leave out / hand out
- lavish on / cut off
- result in / result from (cause meaning)
- take for granted / take off
- fight like cat and dog / hit the books
Exercise 6 – Personal Reflection
- Describe a supportive relative.
- When have people backed you up?
- Have you ever felt squeezed out?
- Who do you appreciate most?
- What family value matters most?
- How can conflict be reduced?
- Should parents treat children equally?
- What have you learned from family life?